Pam Farrel is a pro when it comes to applying biblical truth to the tough situations of life. In this Relationship UPGRADE, she inspires us to "breathe life" and hope wherever we can.
"God is a specialist at breathing life into seemingly hopeless situations," Pam Farrel says.
And there is the secret. Although Pam is a relationship expert, the best "specialist" in hope is the Lord, and Pam encourages us to tap into that power source.
Pam continues . . .
My grandmother scarred her lungs rushing into a barn on fire to rescue animals. As an elderly woman, she needed her oxygen tank to breathe life into her.
In a similar way, God wants us to be those who breathe life into difficult moments—and sometimes into difficult people!
The Lord, Himself, is the breath of life:
“And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being” (Gen 2:7 NKJV).
“The God who made the world and everything in it is the Lord of heaven and earth and does not live in temples built by human hands. And he is not served by human hands, as if he needed anything. Rather, he himself gives everyone life and breath and everything else" (Acts 17:24–25).
God wants us to be more like Him, more of a life-giver.
In Deuteronomy 30:19-20, God’s heart is evident :
"This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob."
This “choose life” principle can be extended to apply to all kinds of situations: the seeming death of a dream, the spiraling downward of the life of someone you love, a business on a decline or in any situation that feels stuck or hopeless.
Seek to breathe life by simply asking:
- What would bring life to this situation?
- What would bring life to this person?
- Who has the skills, talents, time, and/or energy to resuscitate or revive this circumstance (or person) to bring life?
Most recently, our family saw this “life-giver” philosophy change a situation that seemed beyond hopeless.
My father-in-law is 86 and he had fallen. He was being released from a convalescent home, but he was not strong enough to function in his home—and my 86-year-old mother-in-law was too feeble to give the kind of care needed.
We had a full speaking schedule and it is our sole income, and thousands of people in our audiences would be impacted if we cancelled, so it was near impossible for either Bill or me to be the caregiver. (We were willing, but it felt impossible.)
However, we knew both mom and dad would be more comfortable if the caregiver could be someone they already knew.
Our youngest son, Caleb, came to us and said, “I believe God has called me to breathe life into Grandpa’s situation.”
Caleb was a recent graduate from an engineering program, and he had three weeks available to use before moving to another state for his Master’s program. Caleb was football player and had just completed building a block home on the mission field—so he was strong enough to carry his grandfather. Also, because Bill’s father was an aerospace engineer, the two already had much in common.
Caleb moved in, was trained by all the health care professionals, and began to rehab his grandfather. In addition, those two engineers redesigned doorways and gates, a patio, a desk and a wheelchair to make them more user-friendly for Dad.
Caleb is such a workhorse that when he wasn’t caring for grandpa, he rebuilt the patio, a ramp, a gate and several other areas of their home to help give Dad independence and access.
In just two weeks, Dad went from what appeared to be death’s door, to stronger mentally and physically than we had seen him function in several decades.
Caleb breathed vibrant life into the situation!
Who can you breathe life into today?
Pam Farrel is the author of 45 books, an international speaker, and relationship 
expert who seeks to breathe life into people’s most vital relationships through 
the ministry she runs with her husband, Love-Wise. Today’s blog is adapted from her newest book, 7 Simple Skills for Every Woman: Success At Keeping It All Together.
Graphic: adapted, courtesy of Jan Schultz, Webdesigner Stuttgart, Unsplash.